Want to know How To Be A Better Husband?
Admit it – deep down every man wants to be a hero, just like every women wants to be a princess. So here’s the chance for you to bring out your inner hero and make her the princess all at the same time. Are you interested? I thought so.
Ever heard that little things make a big impact? Well, it’s true. Now think about it…..most women notice the little details in life. Little things are often what matter most to them.
Before we get started, let’s get some preconceived notions out of the way.
How To Be a Better Husband – Part 1
1. It doesn’t matter what your friends think or how they treat their wives.
Be a real man, not one of those wimpy ones who cares about what his friends think. Men who put forth some effort to have a good marriage are ALWAYS happier than the ones who spend their time sitting around with their buddies complaining about their wives. After all, why be more loyal to them than your wife? They are not going to take care of you when you are sick, give birth to your children, or wash your dirty clothes. And you do not go home to them every night. It just makes good sense to have more loyalty to the person you share a life with when you think about it, huh?
2. You don’t have to spend every minute of every day trying to make your wife happy.
It really does not take that much to make most women happy. The Points Calendar is a way to make your wife happy with little things each day. Here is what you do: Get a calendar or use one you already have. Then write in one little thing to do for your wife each day. Even the smallest things will make a huge impact. Take out the trash, buy here a certificate for a pedicure, cook dinner – she will appreciate anything you do. If you find something she especially likes, then feel free to repeat as much as you want (but do not overdo it). You do not have to write poetry or serenade her from the backyard.
How To Be a Better Husband – Part 2
There are a few things you can do that will literally transform your marriage in just a few weeks. It is much easier than you probably think. Here is a list of things that will make her happier, improve your marriage, and therefore, make you happier.
1. Do something for her everyday (it does not have to be something big every day)
2. Tell her you love her every day
3. Complement her on something every day (but not the same thing every day)
4. Spend at least 10 minutes every day connecting with her about her day, concerns, etc. (this should be face-to-face with no distractions such as TV, phones, computers, etc.)
If you are REALLY serious about your marriage, then the other important thing you should do (the most important thing actually) is get into a Christian-based, Bible-believing church. The simple act of sitting in the church together will begin to draw you closer.
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by Angela Christian Pope aka Angela Monahan @ ModernRelationship.org