The Big Decision
Everyday we wake up and make a big decision.
Before our feet ever hit the floor, we must decide whether we will be happy or unhappy for the day.
Now, some people will automatically think that is an oversimplified statement, but really it’s not. Think about it. Everyone knows that one person who is always happy, no matter what. And often that person is not rich and does not have a perfect life. (At the time of this writing there is a documentary on Netflix called “Happy” which highlights this and I highly recommend watching it.)
You see, we often look to outside circumstances and other people to provide our happiness. We may not realize that, but we do. True happiness comes from within ourselves. It is a state of mind – a state of being. If you are a truly happy person, then things that happen around you generally don’t change that.
Make the choice right now to be happy and don’t let anything change that decision.
Stop Waiting for Happiness To Happen
One day a few years ago, I was talking to my father about some life issues when he said, “Angela, if you don’t stop that you will wish your whole life away.”
Wow! What an insight!
He was right. I was always living for the next weekend or vacation. I thought I would be happy when I got a new car, then when it was paid off. Or when I paid off a different bill or accomplished something at work. There was always that one thing that I needed in order to be happy. I had been postponing my happiness for years without really realizing it.
I didn’t really grasp the concept that I could be happy while life was unfolding. It didn’t have to wait for anything. It was as easy as making a one second decision.
All those reasons I was using to not be happy were nothing more than excuses.
The Easiest Way To Happiness
The #1 way to get happy and stay happy is practicing gratitude each and every day.
Those who practice it religiously will tell you that emphatically. When you start every day thinking about the abundance in your life, it is virtually impossible to feel unhappy. Also, your mind cannot think positive and negative thoughts at the same time. It is completely impossible. So while you are thinking off all the things you are thankful for in your life, you are literally pushing all the negative thoughts away.
For example, I begin each day saying “thank you” for everything I can think of. As I get out of bed, take a shower, brush my teeth, etc. Then I also go back to that exercise throughout the day. Sometimes I do that when I eat, or if I encounter a negative situation or person. It immediately puts me back into a happy state of mind.
Most people have better lives than they think because they focus on the negative things instead of the positive ones. Once you start to focus on the good things, then your life will begin to feel more abundant. You will literally feel a shift in your life.
Say it in your head, say it out loud, or even keep a gratitude journal so you can look back at all your blessings over time. Just start today.
Steps To Happiness Everyday
- Decide to be happy when you wake each morning.
- Decide to be happy right this minute and stop using excuses not to be.
- Use gratitude throughout every day to remind you of your wonderful life.
It’s that simple! Start your happiness journey right now!