The Shift (How To Have a Simpler Life)
The Shift you need in your life could be just around the corner. All this talk about tiny houses, minimalism, and decluttering our lives is making an impact of many people these days.
Obviously, you are one of those people or you probably wouldn’t be reading this post.
This morning I was talking with a friend and she was relating how difficult it was to keep a full time “regular” job and still have a life. She also said she didn’t plan to work until she was age 65.
How can you blame her?
I know I don’t. Who wants to toil away their best years and only begin to enjoy themselves near the end of their life?
I am not the first person to say the American Dream is a lie. For years we have been fed the misguided advice that says the more items we accumulate, the happier we will be. More stuff DOES NOT make you happier. It just makes you busier. And more stressed. And angry. And tired.
That sounds more like a nightmare.
Quality Versus Quantity
So what is The Shift?
This is the point in your life where you decide to change your way of thinking about what’s important. It is usually a shift away from ambition and competition with others. In most cases people decide that everyday quality of life is more important than having a large quantity of stuff. A joyful life is more important that material possessions or social status.
That’s basically it in a nutshell. However, when you start down this road you will discover that it reaches into each and every aspect of your life.
- Instead of trying to be a social butterfly, you might decide to concentrate on a few truly meaningful friendships with a tight circle of friends.
- You might decide that having three pairs of beautiful quality boots is better than 50 pairs and not ever being able to find the pair you are looking for.
- You might opt to buy a less expensive vehicle (with less payment, insurance, maintenance cost, etc.) so you can work part time instead of full time. Thus, having more personal time to enjoy life.
- You decide that free time to reflect and unwind are better than 3 hours of television at night.
How Far Must I Take The Shift To Be Happy?
This depends on each individual. I have seen people literally become “homeless” and be happy about it (but not homeless in the way you are probably thinking). There are also people who love living in tiny houses or carrying all their possessions in a backpack.
That’s a bit extreme for me, but it certainly works for some people.
You can take The Shift to whatever level you are comfortable with. That’s the beauty of it. Take it to the point of happiness, then stop.
It’s really just that simple.
The high motivational Wayne Dyer has a book and video that make it easy to understand and get started.
I recently bought this box set at McKay’s, which is a used media store near where I live. My husband actually got into this DVD as much as I did. I have been exposing both of us to various aspects of creating a simpler life and he is starting to come over to my way of thinking. He is a true man’s man, so if he can get into this – anyone can.