You Are What You Desire

Desire is a strong emotion that can pull at us mentally, emotionally – even physically. As living, breathing creatures we are often at the mercy of our wants and needs, but it doesn’t have to be that way.

In our hyper connected society we are often spoon fed the things we should want or need in order to be happy, productive individuals in this world.  A curious thing happens when you follow the crowd and allow yourself to be tricked into believing the advertisers and corporations. You become more and more unhappy each day.

The sheer act of trying to keep up with everyone around you is exhausting. And it’s not just the stuff you must accumulate to keep up. Now you must also have meaningful, Instagram worthy experiences to feel normal. You are judged by the vacations you take, the concerts you attend, the innovative couple weekends you contrive – it is never ending.

One of the best things I have ever done was sit down and make a list of the things I truly desired in my life. Then I worked toward the things in life that would bring those desires to me the quickest.  Here are a few of the things on my list:

  1. Have happy, healthy, well-adjusted children
  2. Be financially comfortable
  3. Have fewer responsibilities
  4. Take more family vacations that are simple and relaxing

I took specific steps for each desire and felt energized because my time and efforts were being laser focused on the desired outcome.

When I looked at the list I made I realized the person who achieves those desires is a happy, calm person – and isn’t that what we all crave?

All the material things and accomplishments we all chase are trying to achieve that perceived happiness at the end, right? Why not take a shortcut on the road to happiness and pursue the quickest route to true joy?

Our desires define us, whether we like it or not. Do we want to be people who chase materialism or meaningful things in life?

You are what you desire.